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Old 05-27-2004, 05:41 PM
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Default Uhhh...another stupid question about women\'s signals.

Okay so same person I mentioned before for those of you familiar with this situation. Here is what is happening now, she has made relatively frequent jokes, remarks about loving me. Examples:

Yesterday "Keep on Loving You" came on our community stereo and she suddenly came out and turned it up, kind of looked in here and smiled. So I said "What is this a dedication?"
She responded with," I don't think I said I loved you yet...have I?" She wasn't sarcastic she seemed to be asking a legitimate question.

Today, again a song came on "Take On Me" by A-ha and I ran out there to turn it up because I love that song and could barely hear it. I said out loud to the girl in the front room,"I love this song!" Suddenly the girl in question from her office said," I love you..I mean this song...I love you and the song."

Is she feeling me out here or just screwing with me? There have been more instances then these but these are the only ones I remember verbatim. I am confused, please help.
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Old 05-27-2004, 05:43 PM
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Default Re: Uhhh...another stupid question about women\'s signals.

dude quit bein dumb and ask her out, apparently she wants to take it a step further. so ask her out and go out on a date with her. apparently you feel the same way as she does.
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Old 05-27-2004, 05:50 PM
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I already did, it was in the last post. Plus we have been going out to lunch together, grant it we have worked out on lunch together for several months but now we are actually going out. So I am okay on that part. I am just trying to figure out why she is suddenly throwing the word Love around, that is a serious word in my book and not one I view lightly.
Why can't people just shoot straight and to hell with the consequences, though I guess I am as guilty of that as anyone else.
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Old 05-27-2004, 05:54 PM
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oh i didnt know u asked her out, my bad.
but sometimes some woman (and men) feel the need to have someone love them due to past experiences and stuff. so they throw the L-bomb to everyone hoping that they will return the l-bomb. i cant tell you for sure if she is one of them.
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Old 05-27-2004, 06:04 PM
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I don't think she is. I have known her for over a year and a half and she has not so much as gone on a date, present company excluded. Believe me it has not been for lack of offers, I can't think of a guy in this building that doesn't have a crush on her...even the gay guy that works in our office hits on her, weird. She is definitely a very strong willed independent person so I would be shocked if she was one of those "need love" people. But I know the kind you are talking about Outlaw.
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Old 05-27-2004, 06:10 PM
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Why not just talk to her about it? That is what I do to girls when I am confused... but I am usually really good at reading signs, and I think she likes yuo.
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Old 05-27-2004, 06:13 PM
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hmmm, maybe she loves you for real bro, or maybe shes joking. she could be testing the waters to see how scared you got when she said that so she will know where you guys stand. i dunno woman are weird. i dont know how you feel about her and stuff. but my advice is that if you really like her then stick with it.
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Old 05-27-2004, 06:15 PM
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Default Re: Uhhh...another stupid question about women\'s signals.

Dude - I say that as you all have been together over time you have established a relationship and her feelings have grown into love towards you. She loves you. She's trying to let you know it. Do you feel the same way about her? I am guessing you do. It is a big word but she has waited a long time to say it - I think she means it. [img]/forum/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img] Hope that is what you wanted to hear!

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Old 05-27-2004, 06:19 PM
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Default Re: Uhhh...another stupid question about women\'s signals.

It's weird, it sort of is what I wanted to hear but on the other hand it's like. Oh s***. I can't explain it. I guess men are as complicated as women huh.
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Old 05-27-2004, 06:29 PM
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Ive been in your position... If you are timid your going to end up feeling like crap. Be assertive and make your intentions clear without saying them.
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