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[hardgaingirl1]

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[Elmo9286]

well, youve actually told him to come visit you at work. I think youve done your part! Any normal guy would take that hint and ask you out. Unless hes really shy himself....

so what im saying is if a girl at the gym talked to me often and was telling me to visit her at work id know she was interested in me! So id keep talking.. and well if hes single and interested he should or already should have asked you out after that hint.

Where do you work? I can understadn why it might be weird going to someones work just to talk to them.

[William Ustav]

D'you know what I would do if I were you? I'd ask, plain and simle, "hey, do you wanna do something sometime?" or something [img]/forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img] I think that's the best way. If he gets like "Hmmm... I don't know, I mean, I like you, but..." then you say: "AS FRIENDS!!!". If he's happy, you'll be happy too [img]/forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[devGoAt]

Speaking as a guy, some of us can be pretty dense sometimes and miss quite a few clues. He may still be making his mind up, or perhaps the thought hasn't really crossed his mind yet.

If I were you I'd steer the conversation a little more on the personal side. A good way to do this, without seeming like you are prying, is to volunteer information about yourself at the same time. It can start off really innocent, things like favourite films, sports, pets...anything. That way you'll not only learn more about him, but he'll get to know you somewhat better. And you can get sneaky and steer the conversation the way you want it.

[renob]

ask him to be your training partner, and then make sure you do lots of bent over rows. haha just playin

hes probably like me and too shy or too stupid to pick up on the clues. maybe you should make the first move?

[Serendipity]

Visiting someone at work might be a little awkward, especially if you're busy.

You could attempt flirting, and complimenting him might boost his ego enough to give him the courage to ask you out.
You could also invite him on a night out with you and your friends. Have him bring some friends of his own. Make it something casual.

[hardgaingirl1]

well once when i told him to stop by and he didn't the next time i saw him he joked about it and said he was just really busy....

[junfan68]

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You could attempt flirting, and complimenting him might boost his ego enough to give him the courage to ask you out.

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LOL. You girls are smarter than you look sometimes.

(just kidding)