Cos, I agree with Sweetpea. Maybe it is the time for your girlfriend to take some classes on how to defend herself in a basic manner?
It would relieve some of the tension for her safety, and it will also train her by giving her pointers on security.
Yeah, there are a lot of pervs out there, regardless of what a woman wears that have no respect for PEOPLE.
About your ex girl getting attacked...neither her or you are responsible for other people's choices and actions. Lack of clothing or too much clothing is just an excuse that people use. In these people's minds, even a nun is wearing too revealing clothes. Hope your ex girl is doing better though.
Why not share some tips with her on what your learned on your martial arts training? Still, the formal training by somebody else at least would give her room to learn other things too...and talk to somebody that's not emotionally involved with her about some security concerns she might have *not that she doesn't trust you but we don't want you going paranoid. lol*
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