"He's just not that into you" [Archive]

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 12:20 PM

LOL

I liked this one:

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Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one. We know there was a sexual revolution. (We loved it.) We know women are capable of running governments, heading multinational corporations, and raising loving children — sometimes all at the same time. That, however, doesn't make men different.

I can't say it loud enough: You, the superfox reading this book, are worth asking out

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Ugh! Everything is so complicated! No wonder my kind lived in the wilderness, setting their own rules and only making contact with men when needed *need more kids to replinish the tribe* At this stage, with so much I am finding out about men, sex and the games played..I am never dating again. Honestly, it is all a game of chasing and conquering and moving to the next conquest. How sad.

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KrYptic.x

01-21-2005, 12:40 PM

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I liked this one:

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Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one. We know there was a sexual revolution. (We loved it.) We know women are capable of running governments, heading multinational corporations, and raising loving children — sometimes all at the same time. That, however, doesn't make men different.

I can't say it loud enough: You, the superfox reading this book, are worth asking out

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Ugh! Everything is so complicated! No wonder my kind lived in the wilderness, setting their own rules and only making contact with men when needed *need more kids to replinish the tribe* At this stage, with so much I am finding out about men, sex and the games played..I am never dating again. Honestly, it is all a game of chasing and conquering and moving to the next conquest. How sad.

Amazon

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I will admit that there is something very exciting about 'the hunt.' But I will also think it's awesome when women take that first step and approach you. The get my undivided attention /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 12:49 PM

This is one of my favorite parts
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"And sadly (and most embarassing), we would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply, "you're not the one." We are quite certain that you will kill us or yourself or both - or even worse, cry and yell at us."

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nozzle

01-21-2005, 01:10 PM

Sounds like I could really use that book right about now. /forum/images/graemlins/mad.gif

rev

01-21-2005, 01:30 PM

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LOL

I liked this one:

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Men, for the most part, like to pursue women. We like not knowing if we can catch you. We feel rewarded when we do. Especially when the chase is a long one. We know there was a sexual revolution. (We loved it.) We know women are capable of running governments, heading multinational corporations, and raising loving children — sometimes all at the same time. That, however, doesn't make men different.

I can't say it loud enough: You, the superfox reading this book, are worth asking out

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Ugh! Everything is so complicated! No wonder my kind lived in the wilderness, setting their own rules and only making contact with men when needed *need more kids to replinish the tribe* At this stage, with so much I am finding out about men, sex and the games played..I am never dating again. Honestly, it is all a game of chasing and conquering and moving to the next conquest. How sad.

Amazon

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Eh, don't get discouraged. The game, to me at least, is just an attention getter. I play with girls to see what they're like, gauge their interest, and see if they're someone I really want to invest time in. Once I become involved with someone, all the games are off. It's just a vehicle to keep myself from being made into a chump, because believe me, there are MANY girls out there who's primary goal is to manipulate men. Keep in mind I'm jaded because I live in a college town /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 01:56 PM

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Eh, don't get discouraged. The game, to me at least, is just an attention getter. I play with girls to see what they're like, gauge their interest, and see if they're someone I really want to invest time in. Once I become involved with someone, all the games are off. It's just a vehicle to keep myself from being made into a chump, because believe me, there are MANY girls out there who's primary goal is to manipulate men. Keep in mind I'm jaded because I live in a college town /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

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Well, I can see where you come from. I am just shocked at how some people complain of never having anyone and when they find a person that they are attracted to, share things in common, want to be exclusive,etc, they end up messing it up.

I mean, why would someone cheat/lie to someone they say they love? *specially cheating* If it is so hard to find someone in the first place, wouldn't you try your best to work things out to stay together? If you have love/commitment/trust, why would anyone allow lust to be stronger? Don't feelings matter? I guess this duality of sex/love drives me crazy. I feel like I can't trust anyone. I feel like I am just the "girl of the moment" and that I should be prepared to be dumped in a blink of an eye when someone "better" *by male standards like more beautiful, more willing to give in sex, different enough to be interesting* comes along.

I know my worth. I know the wonderful person that I am but male standards *most men* seem so shallow that they never go beyond skin deep and these standards are the ones they use to evaluate me.

So, until proven wrong, I will remain skeptical, untrusting and defensive. I mean, if some men are willing to risk losing a friendship just at a chance of getting sex..*and you would think that dating a friend would be better emotionally*, why bother dating? Everyone just seems to want a piece of @ss and that's all.

Oh that I am glad I wear my battle gear 24/7! I trust men as friends/mentors/equals when there is no attraction. You never know if the guy you are going out with is going out with 5-6 other people at the same time nowadays.

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littleamazon

01-21-2005, 01:58 PM

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This is one of my favorite parts
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"And sadly (and most embarassing), we would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply, "you're not the one." We are quite certain that you will kill us or yourself or both - or even worse, cry and yell at us."

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I say wimps!!! The best approach is to come clear and get it done and over with then both people can move on to someone that is really worthy of them. The more a man waits, the more devastating emotionally it will be for a woman.

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getnbgr

01-21-2005, 02:23 PM

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This is one of my favorite parts
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"And sadly (and most embarassing), we would rather lose an arm out a city bus window than tell you simply, "you're not the one." We are quite certain that you will kill us or yourself or both - or even worse, cry and yell at us."

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I say wimps!!! The best approach is to come clear and get it done and over with then both people can move on to someone that is really worthy of them. The more a man waits, the more devastating emotionally it will be for a woman.

Amazon

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"Just like a bandaid RIGHT OFF" - Seinfield

Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 02:25 PM

Little A - I think you should read the book. There are many things that make sense. It covers the friend thing and the cheating part. Honestly I think even guys would enjoy this book. It is a very real, humorous and truthfull way of explaining the answers guys give us in every other way but verbal. There are a lot of things guys tell us by the things they do, but we either dont recognize them or we make excuses to not believe them. This is what this book is. It is a reality check.

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Sounds like I could really use that book right about now.

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I definetly recomend it! Anything we can help with???

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 02:33 PM

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Little A - I think you should read the book. There are many things that make sense. It covers the friend thing and the cheating part. Honestly I think even guys would enjoy this book. It is a very real, humorous and truthfull way of explaining the answers guys give us in every other way but verbal. There are a lot of things guys tell us by the things they do, but we either dont recognize them or we make excuses to not believe them. This is what this book is. It is a reality check.

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Sounds like I could really use that book right about now.

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I definetly recomend it! Anything we can help with???

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Nah, I have another book...written by an ex-editor of a gentleman's magazine that quotes from letters written by men over the years. Tell you, THAT was an eye opener. In Amazon's book, there are no excuses for cheating.

I wonder, how does that book justify it? Men and women that cheat are to me...not even human. Have I been tempted to? We all are at one time or another but I, at least, have ethics and respect for myself, my body and the promise I made to the other person. My word is who I am.

A woman knows what the signals mean without the book, once she realizes that men are action driven and that is how they should be read. We women try to romantize and idealize everything. We should just realize that at the core we all want to be accepted for who we are, even if we are not perfect. We shouldn't settle for less than what we can give in a relationship. Everyone is responsible for their own choices in a relationship.

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Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 03:00 PM

Oh trust me they definetely do not justify it. But basically they put it "He's just not that into you if he is having sex with someone else" And yes you and I both know this, but I can guarantee that each of us has been or has a friend that has been in this situation and tried to validate what he did and why he did it.
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A woman knows what the signals mean without the book, once she realizes that men are action driven and that is how they should be read. We women try to romantize and idealize everything. We should just realize that at the core we all want to be accepted for who we are, even if we are not perfect. We shouldn't settle for less than what we can give in a relationship. Everyone is responsible for their own choices in a relationship.

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Unfortunately not all women acknowledge this. I was one of these women, and sometimes I may still be like this. And it sucks. If all women acknowledged this and realized that they should never settle, then this book would not be on the best sellers list.

Next book store you are in pick it up and open it to any page read just a bit and I bet you will enjoy this "girlie" book!! I wouldnt steer you wrong chickie!! /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 03:07 PM

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I wouldnt steer you wrong chickie!! /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

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I know chickie, I know...Amazon is just highly resistant of anything that is too "girlie" like spending countless hours at the beauty salon *ugh!*, shopping impractical stuff *just because it looks cute*, and reading anything "fairie tale related" LOL

Now, give me the Art of War, or take me to a boxing match or cage fighting match and I am in my element. God knows that it was a moment of extreme weakness and depression when I bought: "When Harry met Sally" /forum/images/graemlins/mad.gif LOL or "My Bestfriend's wedding"

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Ultra Man

01-21-2005, 03:13 PM

what i hate is i have friends that are girls, no girl friends. its like i'm everybodies gay friend /forum/images/graemlins/mad.gif

rev

01-21-2005, 03:17 PM

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Well, I can see where you come from. I am just shocked at how some people complain of never having anyone and when they find a person that they are attracted to, share things in common, want to be exclusive,etc, they end up messing it up.

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The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I'm very guilty of this myself, as the longest relationship I've ever had has been about 3 months. I have a short attention span when it comes to women, and I think that this is very common among men.
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I mean, why would someone cheat/lie to someone they say they love? *specially cheating* If it is so hard to find someone in the first place, wouldn't you try your best to work things out to stay together? If you have love/commitment/trust, why would anyone allow lust to be stronger? Don't feelings matter? I guess this duality of sex/love drives me crazy. I feel like I can't trust anyone. I feel like I am just the "girl of the moment" and that I should be prepared to be dumped in a blink of an eye when someone "better" *by male standards like more beautiful, more willing to give in sex, different enough to be interesting* comes along.

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There's no excuse for cheating on someone. Period. Most of my friends, both male and female, have cheated on someone that they're in a relationship with at one time or another. I'm proud to say that I havn't, but it's not like I havn't had pleanty of opportunity to do so. Again though, it's the grass is greener issue. Some guys think that because they find someone interesting *for the moment*, that person will remain interesting, when they're really bound to repeat the cycle all over again with this new girl. Men are pretty stupid when it comes to relationships.
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I know my worth. I know the wonderful person that I am but male standards *most men* seem so shallow that they never go beyond skin deep and these standards are the ones they use to evaluate me.

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If great guys were easy to find, guys with a great smile, sparkling personality, maturity, confidence, and a killer body, then most women would be with them. Working out is a great metaphor for this: If it was easy to get ripped, then everyone would be huge with a 6-pack. Keep searching, re-evaluate where you're meeting men.
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So, until proven wrong, I will remain skeptical, untrusting and defensive. I mean, if some men are willing to risk losing a friendship just at a chance of getting sex..*and you would think that dating a friend would be better emotionally*, why bother dating? Everyone just seems to want a piece of @ss and that's all.

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If you close yourself off, then how is a man going to prove himself to you? If you've already shot him down before he walks up, then you're going to be killing off a few potential "Mr. Right's" before they get a chance to really talk to you.
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Oh that I am glad I wear my battle gear 24/7! I trust men as friends/mentors/equals when there is no attraction. You never know if the guy you are going out with is going out with 5-6 other people at the same time nowadays.

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I've got a PM for you.

sta63bmx

01-21-2005, 03:21 PM

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why bother dating? Everyone just seems to want a piece of @ss and that's all.

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This could be a best-selling book that would help women understand men better. It would have an elaborate, fancy cover with a picture of two people in a romantic embrace, and it would be rose-scented, and it would be called "The Secret Mind of Men" and you'd open it up and all it would say inside is "Men just want to get laid and that's all."

I mean, that seems to be the 180 proof, extra-pure corn liquor of the male mind right there. It's not just true in dating, either...

You could be sure he wasn't dating anybody else if you went to a local engineering campus and picked up engineering students. I mean, that one is obvious. /forum/images/graemlins/laugh.gif Then again, you might not want to pick those people.

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 03:28 PM

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If you close yourself off, then how is a man going to prove himself to you? If you've already shot him down before he walks up, then you're going to be killing off a few potential "Mr. Right's" before they get a chance to really talk to you.

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I know. I was told once not to give up. I know that the best thing is to keep on going, living life, enjoying being oneself, setting new goals, sharing love with the ones in your life without any expectations.

I guess that for a woman, it is hard to understand why one gets the wrong kind of attention when we are not doing anything wrong.

Crazy.

As a woman I must say, I can't help but have a soft spot for men. I have many moments of tenderness and caring with friends to give up on them it is just that sometimes, relationships seems much more trouble than blessing. Maybe I haven't met the right kind of man.

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nozzle

01-21-2005, 03:36 PM

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I definetly recomend it! Anything we can help with???

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Nah, not really. Just coming to a realization that my best friend who happens to be my on-again-off-again boyfriend is using me and not really all "that into me." I guess he's just biding his time until someone better comes along.

I feel like Little A was reading my mind when writing what she did.

Why is it, guys, when you find a girl that you get along with, have almost everything in common, trust completely (at least more than any other friend/person male or female), can respect, can understand, understands you, knows what you need and when you need it, you think "Oh, there just might be someone a tad bit better. Better hold on to this one and do just enough to keep her interested until this potential 'tad bit better' comes along."?

rev

01-21-2005, 03:36 PM

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what i hate is i have friends that are girls, no girl friends. its like i'm everybodies gay friend /forum/images/graemlins/mad.gif

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You have girls that you want to date as friends because you don't exhibit qualities of the alpha male.

rev

01-21-2005, 03:42 PM

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Nah, not really. Just coming to a realization that my best friend who happens to be my on-again-off-again boyfriend is using me and not really all "that into me." I guess he's just biding his time until someone better comes along.

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He is. You have two options: 1) play along and be a chump, or 2) find someone better and make him the chump. Don't let him see this coming.
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Why is it, guys, when you find a girl that you get along with, have almost everything in common, trust completely (at least more than any other friend/person male or female), can respect, can understand, understands you, knows what you need and when you need it, you think "Oh, there just might be someone a tad bit better. Better hold on to this one and do just enough to keep her interested until this potential 'tad bit better' comes along."?

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Because women are insanely jealous and keeping a women around you at all times, particularly a group of women, makes you more attractive to other women. He's using you as his lure.

Profly

01-21-2005, 03:47 PM

I soo want to get involved in this!!!!!

Without saying too much I think there are alot of missunderstandings between women and men. Take things for face value. Some people get too involved or take things the worng way and have high expectations. It takes time to understand people. Everyone is different. To say all men are the same and all women are the same is wrong. There are always differences, some subtle, some not.

I know this sounds vague..... I have to be.

GGG

rev

01-21-2005, 03:53 PM

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Without saying too much I think there are alot of missunderstandings between women and men. Take things for face value.

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The problem is that a lot of men don't realize that women put forth tests, weather they know it or not. They'll test you, wanting to see if you step up and call them out on it, or if you don't and get relegated to "the friend zone".

Mecha04

01-21-2005, 03:54 PM

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Why is it, guys, when you find a girl that you get along with, have almost everything in common, trust completely (at least more than any other friend/person male or female), can respect, can understand, understands you, knows what you need and when you need it, you think "Oh, there just might be someone a tad bit better. Better hold on to this one and do just enough to keep her interested until this potential 'tad bit better' comes along."?

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Because women are insanely jealous and keeping a women around you at all times, particularly a group of women, makes you more attractive to other women. He's using you as his lure.

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Speaking as a male, thats sad but true.

Ultra Man

01-21-2005, 03:57 PM

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what i hate is i have friends that are girls, no girl friends. its like i'm everybodies gay friend /forum/images/graemlins/mad.gif

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You have girls that you want to date as friends because you don't exhibit qualities of the alpha male.

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so acting like a jackass gets you the girls. its not even funny how many of these alleged "hard @sses" who think there so great because there at the top of the pecking order. shut there mouths when i ask the simple phrase "care to step outside?" then its oh, i was just joking take it easy man.

so i guess i should start being insecure and that will get me girls. "i feel the need to belittle everyone to show im at the top" is the attitude i need. those are the people i love to tell shut the hell up to. its the same thing in the weight room "how much do you bench?" i hate that question, now i just tell people "until i can't do it anymore"

if i have to get into this top dog crap to get girls to want to date me, i dont know. i hate these little boys who run around trying to be on top.

im not saying you fall into any of these catagories Rev. i've never met you but you seem like a class act to me /forum/images/graemlins/smile.gif just venting...

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 04:00 PM

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so acting like a jackass gets you the girls. its not even funny how many of these alleged "hard @sses" who think there so great because there at the top of the pecking order. shut there mouths when i ask the simple phrase "care to step outside?" then its oh, i was just joking take it easy man.

so i guess i should start being insecure and that will get me girls. "i feel the need to belittle everyone to show im at the top" is the attitude i need. those are the people i love to tell shut the hell up to. its the same thing in the weight room "how much do you bench?" i hate that question, now i just tell people "until i can't do it anymore"

if i have to get into this top dog crap to get girls to want to date me, i dont know. i hate these little boys who run around trying to be on top.

im not saying you fall into any of these catagories Rev. i've never met you but you seem like a class act to me /forum/images/graemlins/smile.gif just venting...

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LOL

That wouldn't get my attention. Yes, it is attractive that you are confident, respectful and even ****y at times but any man that acts like a jerk makes me want to hurt him physically.

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sta63bmx

01-21-2005, 04:01 PM

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...or if you don't and get relegated to "the friend zone".

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Am I the only person who found this line hilarious? I can hear the announcer, the music in the background, and black and white footage of a chick in a fifties dress patting a guy on the hand and then turning away, and then the black and white spiral and a look of horror on his face as he realizes he has bought a one way ticket to....

THE FRIEND ZONE!!!!!!!!!!!

Neener neener, neener neener, etc.

Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 04:03 PM

If all women took things for face value instead of twisting things around so they dont "seem" as bad it would be a much less dramatic world!

Nozzle - have faith and be strong enough to walk away. Know that you didnt choose for him to treat you this way, BUT you can choose to tolerate it or walk away from it.
Go have a cry, and then a laugh cause you can say it is his loss, and then go have a fabulous workout. (See the book has already made me see clearer!! j/k I am slowly erasing the word "sucker" from my forehead! LOL)

Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 04:06 PM

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Why is it, guys, when you find a girl that you get along with, have almost everything in common, trust completely (at least more than any other friend/person male or female), can respect, can understand, understands you, knows what you need and when you need it, you think "Oh, there just might be someone a tad bit better. Better hold on to this one and do just enough to keep her interested until this potential 'tad bit better' comes along."?

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Because women are insanely jealous and keeping a women around you at all times, particularly a group of women, makes you more attractive to other women. He's using you as his lure.

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Speaking as a male, thats sad but true.

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All I can say is Dumb MEN!

rev

01-21-2005, 04:15 PM

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so acting like a jackass gets you the girls. its not even funny how many of these alleged "hard @sses" who think there so great because there at the top of the pecking order. shut there mouths when i ask the simple phrase "care to step outside?" then its oh, i was just joking take it easy man.

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Wrong. You don't need to be a jerk or a hardass, you do need to have the confidence in yourself to know that you are a great catch and that the girl you're talking to should want what you have to offer (not necessarily in a sexual way). Don't get me wrong, you should be ****y sometimes. Your attitude should always be: I have something you want, and if you play your cards right, I *might* let you get to know me. You should always keep your conversations short. I cannot stress this enough. You don't need to talk to her for an hour spilling all of your personal life on her. You want to throw the hook, interest her, then walk away for awhile.

Kyra1991

01-21-2005, 04:17 PM

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Wrong. You don't need to be a jerk or a hardass, you do need to have the confidence in yourself to know that you are a great catch and that the girl you're talking to should want what you have to offer (not necessarily in a sexual way). Don't get me wrong, you should be ****y sometimes. Your attitude should always be: I have something you want, and if you play your cards right, I *might* let you get to know me. You should always keep your conversations short. I cannot stress this enough. You don't need to talk to her for an hour spilling all of your personal life on her. You want to throw the hook, interest her, then walk away for awhile.

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Rev, have you been talking to Profly???

sta63bmx

01-21-2005, 04:18 PM

You just have to be CLUTCH! Sorry. Just kidding.

rev

01-21-2005, 04:22 PM

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 04:25 PM

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Wrong. You don't need to be a jerk or a hardass, you do need to have the confidence in yourself to know that you are a great catch and that the girl you're talking to should want what you have to offer (not necessarily in a sexual way). Don't get me wrong, you should be ****y sometimes. Your attitude should always be: I have something you want, and if you play your cards right, I *might* let you get to know me. You should always keep your conversations short. I cannot stress this enough. You don't need to talk to her for an hour spilling all of your personal life on her. You want to throw the hook, interest her, then walk away for awhile.

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Rev, have you been talking to Profly???

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Is it a coincidence that they both wear hats? Texas vs Canada? LOL. Now, not all people want a monogamous relationship. There are certainly a lot of players out there with their own agendas *applies to men AND women*
I just wish I had a way of instinctively know who is looking for what I am looking for *Also, if you play around too much...a great catch might walk away...if you portray too much of a player, specially if she's the kind of woman that knows what she wants*

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PS- Women do this to guys all the time...the game of keeping them interested and guessing...They are just using our female strategies on us! LOL

sta63bmx

01-21-2005, 04:37 PM

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PS- Women do this to guys all the time...the game of keeping them interested and guessing...

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Hell, my wife has been doing that to me for almost six years. So far it has gotten her a kid, a house, new windows in the house, a truck, etc...you'd think I'd learn.

Jrdouglas24

01-21-2005, 04:49 PM

I haven't read this book but I did read another book that was pretty good..."Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". When I lived in a house with my sister, she had it on the book shelf and about halfway through a 3 year relationship with a former gf, I was emotionally drained and couldn't understand why I kind of hated the person that I once loved so much so I decided to pick it up and read it. It kind of broke down why I was feeling the way I was.
Basically, the more time I spent with my hobbies (writing music, working out, reading), the more unhappy she was. And the more I tried to make her happy by always being there for her, the less happy I was because I wasn't getting to spend time on stuff I'm passionate about.
Anyways, I might have to check this book out too...
Anyone else read the Mars/Venus book?

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 04:53 PM

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I haven't read this book but I did read another book that was pretty good..."Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". When I lived in a house with my sister, she had it on the book shelf and about halfway through a 3 year relationship with a former gf, I was emotionally drained and couldn't understand why I kind of hated the person that I once loved so much so I decided to pick it up and read it. It kind of broke down why I was feeling the way I was.
Basically, the more time I spent with my hobbies (writing music, working out, reading), the more unhappy she was. And the more I tried to make her happy by always being there for her, the less happy I was because I wasn't getting to spend time on stuff I'm passionate about.
Anyways, I might have to check this book out too...
Anyone else read the Mars/Venus book?

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Yes, I have read them...I have Mars/Venus in a relationship, Mars/Venus in the bedroom *don't pm me about this, ok?!* and Mars/Venus dating..and I also have a book on "How to Date like a man" LOL

I have used the approaches on Mars and Venus: Men are from Mars..Women are from Venus in everyday relationships with men and women and it works. Helps give a different outlook on how people behave and read actions...Good read!

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rev

01-21-2005, 05:41 PM

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I just wish I had a way of instinctively know who is looking for what I am looking for *Also, if you play around too much...a great catch might walk away...if you portray too much of a player, specially if she's the kind of woman that knows what she wants*

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That's why you don't portay a player. I cannot stress enough the differences between confidence, ****yness, and being a jerk. Confidence is manditory, ****yness is occasional, being a jerk is unacceptable.

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PS- Women do this to guys all the time...the game of keeping them interested and guessing...They are just using our female strategies on us! LOL

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Exactly. So don't get mad when we don't play by the "old" rules. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif If we are hitting it off then I'll probably say, "So, when are you going to buy me a drink?" It's important to say the unexpected. People are tired of the cookie-cutter conversation.

littleamazon

01-21-2005, 06:07 PM

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Confidence is manditory, ****yness is occasional, being a jerk is unacceptable.

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Exactly. So don't get mad when we don't play by the "old" rules. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif If we are hitting it off then I'll probably say, "So, when are you going to buy me a drink?" It's important to say the unexpected. People are tired of the cookie-cutter conversation.

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Understood. You can only use the "How ya doin'?" line for so long..I like that you also say being a jerk is unacceptable and that ****yness is ocassional. I want to get hints here and there that there is much more to a man than talk...like be teased into getting to know more about his depth. Mystery, to a certain degree. I also want to fight the instinct to get closer too soon. I want to be as intriguing as I want to be intrigued.

Then again, only if he's looking for what I am looking. I guess we all need to take our chances. You need to risk something in order to win something.

After all the talk, ****yness and bravado...can a person go the distance? Because anyone can talk..Does a person have endurance in terms of lasting time in a relationship. I approach everything casually, onr shouldn't get emotionally or physically involved too soon *unless that is what they want*

Reality is, better be alone than in bad company. At least in my book.

Amazon

Profly

01-21-2005, 06:13 PM

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Wrong. You don't need to be a jerk or a hardass, you do need to have the confidence in yourself to know that you are a great catch and that the girl you're talking to should want what you have to offer (not necessarily in a sexual way). Don't get me wrong, you should be ****y sometimes. Your attitude should always be: I have something you want, and if you play your cards right, I *might* let you get to know me. You should always keep your conversations short. I cannot stress this enough. You don't need to talk to her for an hour spilling all of your personal life on her. You want to throw the hook, interest her, then walk away for awhile.

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Rev, have you been talking to Profly???

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No, am I speaking his words? /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

I think being Clutch would probably have a lot to do with talking to girls /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

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Meh, I just show up and I get numbers. I dont have to say much.

GGG

I do not think of this as a "GAME"... BUT, if a girl comes up to me and starts "playing it" I just do it right back and I can be mean. This type of woman is not attractive to me. I had a girl (I say girl because she is not a woman in my books) say to me after a while "your not very nice to talk to" All I said was "you dont know me, nor do you care to know me". End of conversation. I had another girlie say to me "Wholly your hot!!!" and I replied "Wholly your not!". Again, just a little girl.... not interested.

NutMeg

01-21-2005, 07:49 PM

Just be yourself.

The right person will come along who loves you for who you are.

Yes, I'm a dreamer... /forum/images/graemlins/crazy.gif

psaturn

01-21-2005, 09:40 PM

It was interesting to read this thread...

Yeah, it is challenging to have a good romantic relationship. I am still single and had two broken relationships that were still in the boyfriend -girlfriend stage. The last one was most painful. My ex girlfriend was actually seeing another guy and she was having sex with him and was pregnant with his baby on the day of the official breakup. She did not say she was pregnant but one can figure out easily by the date the baby was born (full term).

I am still shy with with dating women.

In my church I had several women that were very obvious that they wanted to date with me and they were actually pretty aggressive in pursuing me but I was not interested in them. I wanted them as a friend only ! One even shared a dream she had in which I was in her mother's bedroom and I was combing my hair looking in her mother's vanity mirror ! How did I react ? I ran away ! I avoided them.

I am thinking of stepping out of my shell and thinking of asking a date with a nice Christian lady but unfortunately she lives in another state.

About being unfaithful, I cannot even imagine me being unfaithful once I am committed with a person ! Of course that has not presented to me yet !. I am still virgin.

I have no problems in maintaining friendship. I have friends whom I have corresponded with and maintained friendship for years. I am still in communication with my favorite junior high school teachers and I am 44 yrs old ! in fact, she and her husband are in town from Illinois and we are going to have lunch together in La Quinta tomorrow ! It was really unusual that they had visited me in every town that I lived in California. Berkeley, Merced, Palm Springs...And I still have friends since elementary school in another continent (Europe).

littleamazon

01-22-2005, 10:33 AM

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I had another girlie say to me "Wholly your hot!!!" and I replied "Wholly your not!". Again, just a little girl.... not interested.

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lol

So, first the 'sugar' pickup line and now this! LOL Yeah, it still seems that men like to pursue instead of being approached...LOL.

Amazon

XenoWang

01-22-2005, 11:15 AM

All I have to say is that it's obvious some people here have read or at least heard of the following:

David Shade
FS101
mASF

rev

01-22-2005, 10:04 PM

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All I have to say is that it's obvious some people here have read or at least heard of the following:

David Shade
FS101
mASF

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Yup.

I suppose it can be used to both good and evil /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

X-Factor

01-23-2005, 09:31 PM

Hey, prolly not a good a thing to say here, but......I'm already rather successful with girls, I'm just about 18 and in all honesty, I can get by on my looks (I'll post pics if you like, for whomever) I always get girls checkin me out and letting me catch them too, but I just don't do anything. Anyways I've always been interested in this question; what do women want?

I can talk to girls, yes, I have no worries or anxieties but some of the guys like rev and profly seem good with women....I would just like other opinions on what is the best method of attracting/picking up women?

I would think that women responses would be priceless here....so lets's get this goin....

P.S. I've tried several methods, and they all worked...but what is the BEST way of doin it?

littleamazon

01-25-2005, 10:48 AM

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Hey, prolly not a good a thing to say here, but......I'm already rather successful with girls, I'm just about 18 and in all honesty, I can get by on my looks (I'll post pics if you like, for whomever) I always get girls checkin me out and letting me catch them too, but I just don't do anything. Anyways I've always been interested in this question; what do women want?

I can talk to girls, yes, I have no worries or anxieties but some of the guys like rev and profly seem good with women....I would just like other opinions on what is the best method of attracting/picking up women?

I would think that women responses would be priceless here....so lets's get this goin....

P.S. I've tried several methods, and they all worked...but what is the BEST way of doin it?

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What women want? Hum...Depends on what stage of their life they are at...depends on how mature they are...Depends on how they perceive the other sex.

Me? What do I want? I want fidelity, honesty and commitment, be it long term or short term. I want to be able to trust a man as a person, instead of seeing him as an enemy that approaches me to use me and get his satisfaction. I want to meet someone that I can see as a human being. No games because I don't play them. I want to take the time to get to know someone and for them to get to know me, regardless of how green the grass is on the other side...Grass is much like a mirage in the desert...once you get there...you realize it was all illusion..What matters is what is real.

I can only ask for what I can give. Yeah, I am a dreamer.

In summary:

1) A guy that loves to laugh and make someone laugh (naturally happy, as you all know my crazy sense of humor and imagination)

2) A guy that's into physical displays of affection *in a tasteful manner...appropriate for the situation*

3) A man that will stand for his beliefs and will be a man *even if I love/hate it sometimes* Nobody likes a wuss.

4) A man that if he loses my phone number...tracks me down *LOL*

5) A man that has a sensitive side that peeks out occassionaly: scented candles at times...massages..lol

6)A man that is true to himself and shows who he really is...not pretending to be one thing and then being another.

7)A man that sees me as a person worth investing time into, just because I am unique as well as he is.

8) A man who's into dancing, outdoor stuff,being social.

Dreamer, dreamer, dreamer...Yep, in a few years, I will be upgrading my housing from an apartment to a boot and start to adopt all the neighborhood cats. LOL

Amazon

Kyra1991

01-25-2005, 11:28 AM

Little A - You have hit the nail on the head! This really puts it in detail exactly what you want and what so many women want. I dont think you are a dreamer! I think these are possible and if not then I will move into the boot next door and will take care of your cats if you take care of mine!! /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

nozzle

01-25-2005, 11:41 AM

I'd like a guy that's actually interested in me. /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Then I can worry about all the other 'wants'.

KrYptic.x

01-25-2005, 11:41 AM

That's a pretty short summary A.

I should have you write some summarys for me. Condensing what is typically a 1,000+ point list down to 8 simple points.

I'm impressed /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

littleamazon

01-25-2005, 12:15 PM

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Little A - You have hit the nail on the head! This really puts it in detail exactly what you want and what so many women want. I dont think you are a dreamer! I think these are possible and if not then I will move into the boot next door and will take care of your cats if you take care of mine!! /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

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LOL

Thanks to all!
I guess I have always liked to be straightforward..LOL. Kryptic...what lists? LOL.
Nozzle....you need to think about all you want...so that you don't end up with the wrong kind of guy or settling for less.

Kyra, deal on the cats! LOL

Amazon

X-Factor

01-25-2005, 02:07 PM

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I'd like a guy that's actually interested in me. /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Then I can worry about all the other 'wants'.

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Nozzle don't be so down on yourself, you are a very special lady. And any guy should be happy to be with you, you have a very beautiful personality and a cute face to boot. And if a guy is'nt interested he is prolly dating, an idiot, or gay....or possibly a combination of both....

littleamazon

01-25-2005, 02:17 PM

Kyra1991

01-25-2005, 02:27 PM

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I'd like a guy that's actually interested in me. /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Then I can worry about all the other 'wants'.

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Nozzle don't be so down on yourself, you are a very special lady. And any guy should be happy to be with you, you have a very beautiful personality and a cute face to boot. And if a guy is'nt interested he is prolly dating, an idiot, or gay....or possibly a combination of both....

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His reasons dont matter in the large scheme of things, you deserve someone that is "into you" completely and shows you that with everything he does. Remind yourself that you deserve a good guy, I strongly believe that what goes around comes around and there is someone out there that will treat you the way you deserve. And if I am wrong you are always welcome to move into the Puss and Boots community with Little A and I !!! LOL /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

rev

01-25-2005, 02:37 PM

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I'd like a guy that's actually interested in me. /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Then I can worry about all the other 'wants'.

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DO NOT become involved with someone only because they are interested in you. Become interested in someone because there is mutual attraction and interest, otherwise the relationship will stall and fail. Don't settle, it's better to wait and find a good quality person than to just be with someone for the sake of being with someone.

On the post earlier, attracting women is as simple as talking with them. You must be confident. Girls can tell right away if you're just pretending. You're a step ahead though, as looks will certainly help you get your foot in the door. Keeping them around is all in keeping them interested, so don't tell them your life story in your initial conversation!!!

nozzle

01-25-2005, 03:02 PM

Just to clarify, I was mostly joking. I wouldn't get involved with a guy just because he expressed an interest in me. My only point was at this point in my life, getting a guy to be interested in dating me would be a big first step.

X, thanks for the compliment! /forum/images/graemlins/smile.gif

X-Factor

01-25-2005, 03:13 PM

No problem nozzle /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
Sometimes the truth hurts, and sometimes it makes you feel great...

Oh yea, and i'm reminded by my philosophical Irish parents (????)

The sweet is never as sweet without the bitter....

And Rev, I know what you mean man....but my main problem with girls is, they always say that I look like I'll be mean and that's why they never talk to me......haha I don't get it, they say i'm intimidating....but I don't do anything to make them think so...

rev

01-25-2005, 03:23 PM

I know people like that. In fact, I can be one of them! Whenever I'm at work, if we're busy, I'm pretty focused and intense. People always ask me if I'm alright, like if I'm pissed off, when I'm really just busy. It's the same way when I come back from working out. My female roommate told me that I always look extremely pissed off when I walk in the door. . . it's gotta be the testosterone.

My best advice is to smile and laugh /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif If you're having fun and laughing, the people around you will follow suit.

X-Factor

01-25-2005, 03:53 PM

Man, you're pretty knowledgeable on this stuff, I had a god brother like you (by had, I mean , he developed Skitzophrenia) Anyways he was pretty intense, and for some reason could literally get any randoms number, like any, good lookin average, knock-outs...well anyways you remind me of him...where did you acquire this?

NutMeg

01-25-2005, 03:54 PM

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I'd like a guy that's actually interested in me. /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif Then I can worry about all the other 'wants'.

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Nozzle don't be so down on yourself, you are a very special lady. And any guy should be happy to be with you, you have a very beautiful personality and a cute face to boot. And if a guy is'nt interested he is prolly dating, an idiot, or gay....or possibly a combination of both....

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His reasons dont matter in the large scheme of things, you deserve someone that is "into you" completely and shows you that with everything he does. Remind yourself that you deserve a good guy, I strongly believe that what goes around comes around and there is someone out there that will treat you the way you deserve. And if I am wrong you are always welcome to move into the Puss and Boots community with Little A and I !!! LOL /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

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ok, I'll be the old lady with the big fluffy vicious dogs across town... for the sake of the kitties

but I'd neeed something bigger than a boot to live in...

rev

01-25-2005, 04:08 PM

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Man, you're pretty knowledgeable on this stuff, I had a god brother like you (by had, I mean , he developed Skitzophrenia) Anyways he was pretty intense, and for some reason could literally get any randoms number, like any, good lookin average, knock-outs...well anyways you remind me of him...where did you acquire this?

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I'm sorry to hear about your god brother. Mental illness is a horrible, horrible thing. /forum/images/graemlins/frown.gif

KrYptic.x

01-25-2005, 06:09 PM

...heaven help this thread if Profly sees it...

littleamazon

01-25-2005, 07:50 PM

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Profly? /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif Who's that?! /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

Amazon

PS- I have already teased him to show up and express himself but he's busy....keeping his wiggle in check...due to his bulk..LOL *Yes, I am bad and I know this could retaliate*

X-Factor

01-25-2005, 08:06 PM

I thought Profly would be post-whoring here by now...The cowboy sense must be weakening..

KrYptic.x

01-25-2005, 08:21 PM

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I thought Profly would be post-whoring here by now...The cowboy sense must be weakening..

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I guess he's not the 'stud' that he made himself out to be... /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif

X-Factor

01-25-2005, 08:47 PM

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I thought Profly would be post-whoring here by now...The cowboy sense must be weakening..

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I guess he's not the 'stud' that he made himself out to be... /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif

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Maybe he lost his hat?

Profly

01-25-2005, 11:15 PM

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I thought Profly would be post-whoring here by now...The cowboy sense must be weakening..

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I guess he's not the 'stud' that he made himself out to be... /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif

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Maybe he lost his hat?

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I forgot who's bed... oopps I mean house....I left my hat under...... I mean.... at.

As Arnie would say "I'll be back" /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Lots O posting to do in here. I wish work was not so busy.... Time to create some controversy. This thread may be getting "juicy" enough now.

GGG

littleamazon

01-26-2005, 09:52 AM

littleamazon

01-26-2005, 09:57 AM

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I forgot who's bed... oopps I mean house....I left my hat under...... I mean.... at.

As Arnie would say "I'll be back" /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

Lots O posting to do in here. I wish work was not so busy.... Time to create some controversy. This thread may be getting "juicy" enough now.

GGG

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YAWN!!!! After all this time, your recicled material is really pityful...No worries...Rev...the cowboy from Texas has taken over for you...and he's done his job nicely.. /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

My guess about the hat...is that it doesn't fit you anymore...after you have gotten your head all filled up with all that "air of studness" you are so used to blowing..LOL Thing is...it is just that..air..

This, of course, my dearest, I tell you with the greatest affection.. /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif LOL

Amazon

Profly

01-26-2005, 01:30 PM

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4) A man that if he loses my phone number...tracks me down *LOL*

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Gee, this sounds soooooo familiar.

/forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
GGG

littleamazon

01-26-2005, 01:57 PM

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4) A man that if he loses my phone number...tracks me down *LOL*

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Gee, this sounds soooooo familiar.

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GGG

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Have you ever done this? I mean, considering that you are the one telling the girls to stop calling you...or so you say.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Amazon

sta63bmx

01-26-2005, 02:34 PM

He used to, until the restraining orders came in. At least that's what I heard. Sometimes it is possible to be TOO studly, I guess.

littleamazon

01-26-2005, 02:52 PM

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He used to, until the restraining orders came in. At least that's what I heard. Sometimes it is possible to be TOO studly, I guess.

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So, you mean, that he used to track girls down until they decided to have restraining orders on him? /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif Profly the stalker!! /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif

Amazon

PS- Not all women can handle hardcore men, you know.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif althought the thought of Profly stalking is a little bit too freaky... /forum/images/graemlins/confused.gif and scary... /forum/images/graemlins/blush.gif in a Jim Carrey Mask kind of way *yeah, that seems to go with his personality..lol*

Profly

01-27-2005, 08:51 AM

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4) A man that if he loses my phone number...tracks me down *LOL*

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Gee, this sounds soooooo familiar.

/forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
GGG

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Have you ever done this? I mean, considering that you are the one telling the girls to stop calling you...or so you say.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Amazon

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/forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif Who has done this? /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

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All I have to say is that it's obvious some people here have read or at least heard of the following:

David Shade
FS101
mASF

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Yup.

I suppose it can be used to both good and evil

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I have never heard about these people, nor have I searched about them. I had a different source a long while ago, but now I do my own thing. It mostly consists of body language. This is MUCH stronger than words. /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

GGG

littleamazon

01-27-2005, 11:41 AM

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I have never heard about these people, nor have I searched about them. I had a different source a long while ago, but now I do my own thing. It mostly consists of body language. This is MUCH stronger than words. /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

GGG

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So, you wait until the thread gets juicy to post stuff like this! Man! How so-not Clutch of you! /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

Whatever!

LOL

Amazon

Profly

01-27-2005, 11:55 AM

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I have never heard about these people, nor have I searched about them. I had a different source a long while ago, but now I do my own thing. It mostly consists of body language. This is MUCH stronger than words. /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

GGG

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So, you wait until the thread gets juicy to post stuff like this! Man! How so-not Clutch of you! /forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

Whatever!

LOL

Amazon

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And you decide what is Clutch?

GGG

Clutch IS.........

littleamazon

01-27-2005, 12:04 PM

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And you decide what is Clutch?

GGG

Clutch IS.........

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I don't decide what is Clutch. Clutch defines itself. It either is or not...and it has its own vibe! Your posts are as dead as the fishes from the Red Sea...no vibe..no sizzle.

/forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

Amazon

Profly

01-27-2005, 12:16 PM

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I don't decide what is Clutch. Clutch defines itself. It either is or not...and it has its own vibe! Your posts are as dead as the fishes from the Red Sea...no vibe..no sizzle.

/forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

Amazon

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As stated before, I do not use words to create sizzle or vibe, you would just have to be close to me /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

...... if you could ever be so lucky......

GGG

Kyra1991

01-27-2005, 12:17 PM

Ok guys, play nice!!

littleamazon

01-27-2005, 12:25 PM

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Ok guys, play nice!!

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LOL

Kyra, we always play nice.
Always.
I wouldn't get upset at anything Profly says 'cause I know where he's coming from. He's a gentleman and if he crosses the line, he's quick to make amends. If I mess up, I make amends too.

/forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

If I was ever so lucky...Now, that is as predictable as that old pick up line: "How ya doing?"

Amazon

X-Factor

01-27-2005, 05:06 PM

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I don't decide what is Clutch. Clutch defines itself. It either is or not...and it has its own vibe! Your posts are as dead as the fishes from the Red Sea...no vibe..no sizzle.

/forum/images/graemlins/shocked.gif

Amazon

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As stated before, I do not use words to create sizzle or vibe, you would just have to be close to me /forum/images/graemlins/smirk.gif

...... if you could ever be so lucky......

GGG

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I think I read that on a fortune cookie....

NutMeg

01-27-2005, 08:11 PM

Pudgy, I'm not into cowboy hats, or them pink n fuzzy chaps, so I'll be able to resist just fine. /forum/images/graemlins/grin.gif

KrYptic.x

01-27-2005, 08:31 PM

So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

X-Factor

01-27-2005, 09:07 PM

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So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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I'm gonna move in your turf or tuf for that matter /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

littleamazon

01-28-2005, 10:11 AM

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So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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Better now after I saw your picture on the thread honey.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
*Bet you were not expecting that* LOL

Amazon

X-Factor

01-28-2005, 10:13 AM

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So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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Better now after I saw your picture on the thread honey.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
*Bet you were not expecting that* LOL

Amazon

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Wow, the women here must have serious T-levels....I'm fascinated.... /forum/images/graemlins/ooo.gif

littleamazon

01-28-2005, 10:16 AM

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So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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Better now after I saw your picture on the thread honey.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
*Bet you were not expecting that* LOL

Amazon

[/ QUOTE ]

Wow, the women here must have serious T-levels....I'm fascinated.... /forum/images/graemlins/ooo.gif

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HAHAHAHAHAHA! You have no idea....its like in a Xena\Lara Croft\Princess Leia way..*and we DO look great on girly clothes* /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

Amazon

NutMeg

01-28-2005, 10:26 AM

i'm gunna throw elektra in there lil A, the movie may not be the best, but it's the character I'm referring to....

littleamazon

01-28-2005, 10:56 AM

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i'm gunna throw elektra in there lil A, the movie may not be the best, but it's the character I'm referring to....

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Elektra rules! The way she moves in the dark and floats! Also, how she appears and disappears...Yeah, it is interesting! See, girls on this site are no ordinary ladies! We are extraordinary!

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PS- I have always liked that bikini costume of Princess Leia..lol and the cynical/joyful look in Xena's eyes like she enjoys kicking butt and making people bleed *and she does*

KrYptic.x

01-28-2005, 11:08 AM

X-Factor

01-28-2005, 05:12 PM

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So ... Amazon ...

How you doin' ?

LOL /forum/images/graemlins/tongue.gif

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Better now after I saw your picture on the thread honey.. /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif
*Bet you were not expecting that* LOL

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Wow, the women here must have serious T-levels....I'm fascinated.... /forum/images/graemlins/ooo.gif

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HAHAHAHAHAHA! You have no idea....its like in a Xena\Lara Croft\Princess Leia way..*and we DO look great on girly clothes* /forum/images/graemlins/wink.gif

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They could'nt hold a candle to you darlin'....