Does size matter?

[HULKAMANIA]

K, now that i got you to click on this, i wasn't talking about what u think i was. But it is a size question. One of the main reasons that guys workout is so you ladies find us more attractive. We get big, toned and ripped, but do find that TOO big is disgusting? Like Ronnie coleman big. Or even Shawn Ray big. Where does it reach a limit.

[Js_Lilady]

i think if a guy is huge and totally ****y and jerky that it's unattractive. Then if an out of shape guy with no toned muscle had a good attitude he would be attractive, too. Personality matters

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[Js_Lilady]

TRUE DAT, Joe! ;-)

[Philia2]

I definitely need a man with a hard body in my bed......
Weight training and fitness is my life so how would I be able to be with somebody who doesn't have the same interests as me?

In the same time I cannot imagine being with somebody as huge as Ronnie (with arms bigger than my thighs) Just too veiny and massive, it's a little too much after my opinion.

It's just like the guys, they don't like us women too muscular, well we too like when the men are strong and athletic but not freaky huge!

[luvmypt]

I think it is all about proportion. To have guys so huge they look uncomfortable in regular clothes is not attractive to me. Ditto with the massive upper body and skinny chicken legs.

A guy doesn't necessarily have to have the 6 pack abs but I do like the classic triangle shape (broad shoulders, tapered hips).

I guess all in all, if he is all that I look for in looks but treats me poorly, the physique means nothing.

[RedheadHardBody]

Sometimes I think too big of a guy isn't sexy at all.

[HULKAMANIA]

Thanks for the input!

[RedheadHardBody]

You're welcome.

[nikybaby]

To me, as soon as I can see veins popping out all over I get a little grossed out.

<blockquote><font class="small">posted by yu yevon:</font><hr /> <blockquote><font class="small">posted by Js_Lilady but the ones who really care about their bodies work out for themselves. </font color> [/quote:</font><hr />

at the end of the day you have to do it for you. One needs to be content on the inside to be able to give a lot to their partner in terms of support.

[sicily1962]

I absolutely love a big man...
hard, striated...incredible! Oh my!! lol! /forum/images/icons/shocked.gif

I think that people that believe that just because a man is built well and cares about his body, he is a snob or has a bad attitude. Definately an insecurity on their part.
Not so.
I've known many men that are just the opposite...and many of them are my best friends.

so...to answer your question ~ I'd rather be with a man that cares about his body and is active, than a couch potato...
I'm not one so why would i want one? /forum/images/icons/confused.gif

There's just something about curling up next to all of that! lol! /forum/images/icons/wink.gif